“You never know what you are worth, just like my mom” “a mother with bad luck better not die with her babies” “a swan feather with good intentions” “how could a mom taught her daughter to hope big while she lost all her hope?” 和《晚娘》同为1993年的文艺作品超越时代的意义只想嚎啕大哭南侨机工英雄传为了所有女性讨论了很多时至今日都在讨论的内容比如讨好型人格